Spending all day on my hair? Ain’t nobody got time for that!!
I know some girls spend a lot of time detangling and smoothing out their kinks. The number thing I don’t worry about is texture. First-day twistout hair for me is always the kinkiest with hardly any length. As I retwist throughout the week the hair will continue to stretch and become less kinky over time. I’m big fan of just learning to work with your texture. This style was achieved after I washed and conditioned it. Part of my detangling process is to put my hair medium to large twists. I left the back in twists and flat-twisted then up and pinned then down at the top with a bobby pin. I only took down the twists in front and swept the hair up and over to the side (my signature move…lol) and secured it with a hair pin.
Day 2 That night, I moisturized and retwisted with moisture cream. The next day, instead of wearing my hair out, I left the twists in the back pinned up. Then I retwisted the twists in front and secured then with a bobby pin over to the side. Any stray pieces were tucked in.
My hair is so kinky, people often think I have locs…lol (Love my naps…)
Easy breezy style. I think I will moisturize the back and retwist and keep the back twists pinned up and just continue to wear it out or twisted in the front until time for my next wash.
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Are you thinking about going natural, but not sure how doing so will impact your career? Are you looking to go on a job interview, but unsure of how your natural hair will be perceived? Many women, especially those in the corporate world feel pressured to stay relaxed because of the stigmas associated with natural hair. The CNN video below contrasts two women, both are natural (one is transitioning). One woman is a marketing exec who chooses to wear her hair in its kinky state, the other woman is a financial exec who chooses to wear it straightened.
In the video, each woman talks about the perceptions people have about natural hair. Ivy, the marketing exec who chose to wear her hair kinky, notes that it’s not really her fellow White co-workers, but fellow Blacks who give her the most flack over wearing kinky hair. They usually have all these perceptions about natural hair and want to know if it’s damaging to your career. Many are surprised to learn that Ivy has been natural for 12 years. Being natural has not stopped her from moving up the corporate ladder into more senior roles.
Natural Hair Perceptions “People might think I’m earthy and “granola” (i.e. you’d rather hug a tree than a human)” “People might think I’m agressive and a know-it-all” “People might think I’m unkempt or unclean” “People might think I’m lazy” “People might think I’m uneducated” “People might think I’m Afrocentic (not saying that’s bad)” “People might think I’m___________________”
All these perceptions begin with the phrase, “People might think” True. They might think those things. However your interview, your resume, your interactions and actions speak for themselves.
Getting over the “hair” conversation Michelle, the financial exec who wears her hair straightened, expressed that one difficult thing to get over is the initial reaction people have when they see you are natural. She retold the story of a co-worker who wore her afro to work and everyone looked at her strange. I think one of the most hassling things about wearing natural hair to work is the questions. Whites and Blacks alike who do not have curly/kinky hair tend to ask some of the same questions like: How did you get your hair like that? Does it just grow like that? Have you ever thought about straightening your hair? Does it itch?
I mean, really? Do I really want to feel like some exhibit at the zoo? In my experience, the questions will eventually subside. If you don’t make your hair a big deal, others won’t either. People may perceive you one way based on you hair, but once they get to know you, they realize that you actually know what you are talking about. I would hope that people think that I am a smart, free-thinking and conscientiousness person because I have natural hair. But then again, who cares what people think?
Please share your thoughts and experiences, and reactions to the video in the comment section below.